The Hand.
Is one of the affirmation used from our body.
Last year during youth camp there was a workshop about communications by Han-Ni.
She mentioned about how a firm handshake can actually determine your sincerity or confidence to the other person.
An illustration, most businessman, when they shake hands with the people they are about to make a deal with, or maybe acquaintance whom they are introduced to, would give a real firm and strong handshake.
From then, I always take notice about the handshakes I get.
Have you ever gotten a handshake, which is taken so lightly, that it seems like your hands are covered with bacteria or something that they just gave you a teaser handshake? They just used their fingers to shake your fingers.
What more can the hand do?
When affirming or comforting someone for the side, you give a hug around their shoulders.
A good affirmation is when your hands are really holding the persons superior arm or below the shoulder.
One last one, but I'm sure there are more.
When holding hands, a very good example for my blog reader's age, your bf/gf, would you want him/her to hold your hands simply as if it's just for the sake of holding?
Leave the bf/gf, would a mother hold her child's hand irresponsibly?
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| I presume, guys usually have stronger affirmation |
Felt secured, really secured.
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