Seminars

Homosexual Seminar

I did not regret going for this seminar! It truly makes me understand why and how people became a homosexual.

First, NO ONE IS BORN HOMOSEXUAL.
It's the experience that they went through.
While they are growing up, they come to a period of adolescence, where they have a choice of Healthy Heterosexuality(liking the opposite gender) or Broken Sexuality. They road going to Healthy Heterosexuality is full of stumbling rocks.
The rocks represents :
1. Failure to identify with same se parent
2. Labelling : self & external (For eg. I am fat, they have the body shape which I don't.)
3. Sexual abuse (By parents or relatives or strangers)
4. Lack of good peer relationships (not getting enough attention or love)
5. Early exposure to sex, pornography
6.Family distruption (For eg. death/divorce)
7. Passive/Absent Father - Dominant/smoother mother
8. Lack of unconditional love/poor self esteem
9. Fear of opposite sex.

Well, if we have a homosexual friend, and wants to help him/her, there will be a pause thinking. Like, if I were to help him/her, what if he/her falls in love with me?
A : hey B, it's been a while, and i think i love you.
B : what? *runs off*
It's assumed that most of us will run away. Then that friend of yours, might most probably felt rejected and unaccepted even more. So it's better to.....
A : hey B, it's been a while, and i think i love you.
B : i love you too as a friend, but I do not like your behaviour this way.
Then he/her will understand.

The Sexual Brokenness...

20 Different types of sexual Deviations

1. Heterosexual Promiscuity (sex before marriage)
> Are you a virgin? Let me tell you! It is the most courageous thing to do to KEEP YOURSELF PURE! Do not stay under the same roof with different sex if you're living outside your family. ANYTHING can happen!
2. Adultery
3.Homosexuality (same sex attraction)
> Tehy are attracted because they desire to have what they do not have
4. Incest (withing family)
5. Rape
6. Paedophilia (sex with minors)
7. Sadism
8. Masochism ( S&M or violent sex)
9. Bestiality (sex with animals) they are crazy!!!
10. Transvestism (men who enjoy wearing women's underwear - usually in private) =.=
11. Transsexualism
12. Voyeurism (peeping toms)
> when you are bathing and suddenly u see a pair of eyes at the door. They are doing this because they are not satisfied, they want more than just pornography and fantasies.
13. Exhibitonism ( flashers)
> where they suddenly appear naked in front of you!
14. Compulsive Masturbation
> Most teenagers have problem with this.
15. Pornographis Usage (of any kind)
> they use pornography to get high
16. Prostitution
17. Copropilia
> Sex using HUMAN WASTE
18. Necrophilia (dex with dead people)
> they go out hunting for women, and then kill her, and sleeps with the corpse. Perversion.
19. Fetishes (anything non-sexual that is a turn on)
> socks?? shoes?? what.....
20. Cybersex
> they have sexual fantasies with each other...

PORNOGRAPHY.
ITS ROOTS AND HOW TO DEAL WITH IT
I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. Rom 7:18

So I find this law at work. When I want to do good, evil is right there with me - Rom 7:21

But there is HOPE -
Therefore, there is not no condemnation for those whoare in Christ Jesus - Rom 8:1
because through Christ Jesus the law of Spirit of Life set me free from the law of sin and death - Rom8:2

HOW DO WE KNOW THERE IS HOPE
We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.

Answer "true" or "false" to the following questions.
1. I have been dishonest with others about my sexual behaviours.
2. I have engaged in secual behaviours that are incompatible with my moral values
3. On multiple occasions, I have masturbated to pornographic materials (print, phone or internet)
4. Despite my best efforst, I have been enable to stop engaging in these sexual behaviours.
6. Frequently I feel guilt and/or shame about my sexual behavious.
7. My sexual behavious have caused problems in my relationships
8.More than twice I have "stolen time" from my employer be engaging in sexual acts/behavious while on work time (think of it in a student way)
9. No one else knows about my sexual behaviours
10. I have "stolen time" from my family or friends to engage in sexual behaviours.
11. Frequently, when i see an attractive person I can't help but indulge my lustful feelings
12. If my spouse knew about my sexual behaviours, he/she would likely divorce/leave me.

If you have answere Yes to
1-3 you may have a problem.
4-5 you probably have a problem
6 and above, you definitely have a problem.

Lol. I hope that you actually understands what I typed here. 'cause it's a little bit messy here and there... The next Seminar....

Worship Seminar
Pas. Ng Wah Lok came to preached to us about what do we require as a worhip team.
He was a real big help... Was always and still worried if I have pride while serving.
" Lord Jesus, forgive me if I ever feel proud onn stage serving you. Forgive me of my pride and plesase take it away. Amen"

The 4 S we need to have..
Santification - be pure before God
Submission
Sensitivity
Skill

The worship leader together with the worship team plays an important role, while is lead the congregation in to the gates, and then courts and finally to the Holy of Hollies.
Play without looksing at scores? Trying... So that I am able to be in God's presence and also play to serve Him.

okay... it's late. Used up one hour to type this post =.= sleepy!
Good night y'all